My partner and I have been together for a few years. He says it gives him security if he feel s inferior and that I am in charge. Does he really want this, or is it just fantasy? If he were to discuss it at times other than when he is highly aroused during sex, you could consider it a more serious proposal. I would not take this at face value; most people fantasise about things they would never dream of doing in reality. Anyway, he is less aroused by the idea that you would be with other men than by the notion of your being sexually powerful in controlling the scene, and there are many other ways you could take charge.
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It turns out that women do as well. An Ohio State University study revealed that guys think about sex 19 times per day debunking that every-seven-seconds myth compared to 10 times per day for women. But, there definitely are some clues depending on the stage of your relationship. It means you care.
This should be a fun and enlightening article, I hope. Some of the guys on the forums wanted to know what I meant by that second one. Try not to take this personally.