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The 4+ Best Sex Positions to Give Her an Orgasm Every Time
Listen, we all have different sexual preferences. Whether we prefer to be more in control, let our partner take the reigns , or simply want to do whatever will help make a baby , there's a sex position that suits your needs and comfort level. To figure out what works best when , we tapped into the brains of top female sexual health experts. Here's what they say are the best sex positions for common bedroom scenarios. Obviously you can get pregnant just by having sex.
Sex Positions for Women Who Don’t Orgasm Easily
If you're having penetrative sex and you're not getting off, you might be wondering what the heck is wrong. And, really, that would be a shame. Especially because it's actually easier to have a clit orgasm than one from penetrative sex alone. And those legs are a great way to have extra stimulation during penetration.
According to research published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine , vaginal and clitoral orgasms are separate sensations. Interest in testing out new positions actually makes a big difference in her pleasure and her arousal, explains Jen Landa, M. From here, she should bend her right leg around the right side of your waist—allowing full access to her vagina. This position is an upgrade from standard missionary because this sets you up for deeper penetration and allows you to slow your roll.